Interview with vandorboy, alias Gabor Csonka

I accidentally came across the profile of Gabor on Couchsurfing. His travels and way of travelling caught my attention and earned my awe. Gabor is from Hungary, and in the past 22 years he has been to roughly 126 countries around the World. The following interview is the first one in a series that we plan to roll out about notable fellow travelers. Enjoy!

Gabor, what motivates you to travel?


To know more about different cultures, understanding societies and its people, learning from them about traditional ways of living, teaching them how to deal with the bad effects of the globalization and how to manage their life in peace and harmony. How to deal with problems and how to solve them if they couldn’t do so yet. I open for openness, those people  who can change their future are secured.


Was there a moment in your life when you decided that you will travel in a way you are doing it right now?


Oh, my first hitchhiking journey to Greece in 1989 opened for me a new aspect of traveling. Since I keep going, discovering, making friendships, building communities, participating in voluntary organizations, etc.



You define yourself as a low-budget traveler. What does that mean in reality?


Everywhere I go I go almost exclusively with hitch hiking. In some countries this is really easy, in some countries, especially in Western Europe, this is becoming increasingly difficult. As for sleeping I normally take my sleeping bag, so sleeping outside is no problem. I often meet people on servas, hospitalityclub, couchsurfing who host me, or the people who give me a ride also often invite me to their homes. Basically I only spend money on food, and visa fees. My budget is so low that I often live off from less money than the people I visit in Asia or Africa. To give you an idea, in South East Asia, I was spending an average 3-5 US dollars per day. Of course, sometimes in richer countries, like countries in Europe, I work for a few months, just to rest and prepare for my next trip.


How do you get to places where you cannot go by hitchhiking? Iceland or the Caribbean for example?


I have never been those countries yet. But there are many people who use boat-hitchhiking, which is easy in the Caribbean area, where many private sailing boats are looking for helpers. And now there are so many budget airlines, maybe except Africa and south America, almost everywhere you can get cheap flights, if you plan ahead.



Did you ever get into any trouble?


Of course, when you visit countries like Afghanistan, Iraq, Somaliland, Pakistan, Colombia, Sudan, Congo you take risk what challenges you. Other countries like South Africa, Nigeria, Brazil, Peru etc.  you should be vigilant crime wise. Or when I climbed 3-5000 meter high mountains alone, crossing glaciers, get lost in jungles, being kidnapped or robbed, all part of your life, you learn to handle it, and all enriching your experience and wisdom. That makes a backpacker into traveler.
Just a smaller story that happened to me: In Afghanistan, it was impossible to find cheap accommodation, as locals were afraid if the foreigner stays there, the house will be attacked, gunshots, etc. So it is traditionally quite common to visit tea houses, “Chai Khanas”  where guests can sleep over for a night. What the guide books don’t tell you that younger men are also traditionally approached by older men. Sexually. Was no violence in this story but could happened if I don’t react properly. So I had to say an early good bye (4 a.m.), when I was there before the situation getting more serious. :)


I read that you do not take a cellphone with you. How much you rely on the Internet during your travels?


In the last 9 years I didn’t carry cell phone with me. Internet? It depends where I am. I use more and more as getting easier in every corner in this planet (except Africa) collecting and sharing infos for fellow travelers and communities.



I know it is a question you answered a million times, but what are your favorite countries?


Burma definitely is the best experience for me, good combination of people, culture, food, landscape, tribes, adventure and price. Iran, Tajikistan, Uzbekistan, Pakistan, Bolivia, Georgia, Peru, Mexico, Sudan are as well on my top list. Too long to explain but you can read more on my website.


And which ones you like the least?


South Africa, Tanzania - because of people: crime makes here the life of low budget backpacker difficult and dangerous. Generally in Africa you feel most of the people are just taking away your energy. No cooperation, compassion, improvement in their life. (If you are interested in this topic, just read my blog about Africa). But still Africa is a most interesting continent to discover as an anthropologist.


If you could live somewhere outside Hungary, where would you live?


Probably in Europe, where the cultural activities are abundant: Barcelona, Paris, Amsterdam, London, Prague or Berlin. Mexico or New Zealand would be an option as well for a shorter period.



What do you miss the most from your home, Hungary?


From Hungary and Europe in general, I mostly miss the cultural activities and good food. When I travel I miss the cultural life, contemporary art, good exhibitions, theatre, and valuable and deep conversations. It is really refreshing to come home, especially after a long trip to Africa, where people are about to lose their culture which is overwritten by the influx of western culture and values. I am vegetarian and like to discover new tastes and share my knowledge of cooking, showing the culinary of Hungary.


Did you ever fall in love not with a country, but with a person during your trip? How difficult was it to continue your trip?


Oh yes I did. The traveling teaches you the basic Buddhist axiom: everything is impermanent. When you travel you find interesting places, people, moments and you get things you will be attached to. Then comes the time when you lose them, you have to separate. That is the low of nature. We could be sad, we could suffer, but if you look forward you will find new moments, places, people, etc. so there is not too much reason to worry if you lived the moment fully.



You said in an interview that you are about to settle down, and only do shorter travels in the future. What are your plans?


Yes I will settle down. Now I’m in India, planning to write my book to share many of my experiences, wisdom I gained during traveling around this planet. Now I started to work for a travel company as a guide, writing new programs for them. Recently Norway, Georgia, Armenia, Tajikistan, Kirgizstan, West Papua, Egypt and Israeli desert, Jordan, Cuba, Bolivia, Peru to fascinating Oman, West Africa and South African safari covering S.A.R., Namibia, Botswana, Zambia, Zimbabwe, Lesotho, etc.
I am also taking individual tourists on individual tours to the countries they wish to go, so I am building the schedule, arranging transport and accommodation, talking about the culture etc. So if you are one of those persons who need travel advice, travel plan, companion and you need an experienced guide who protects you from unknown trouble you would cross during your journey, don’t hesitate to contact me on my website.



You are not motivated to have all the countries of the world on your list?


I visited only the cultures and countries I was interested in. So far this 126 countries I was interested to discover for different reasons (landscape, people, society, tribes,  architecture, history, food. There are still countries on my list, such as Mongolia, Iceland, Greenland, Antarctica, Vanuatu, Yemen, C.A.R., Gabon, Argentina…
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You can find the blog of Gabor at http://vandorboy.com/.
All photos are from Gabor, you can find an immense selection of his photos over here:

https://picasaweb.google.com/103594156112481728370

Menorca: between beaches and horses

...and our first guest-post comes from the pen of Yure. Enjoy!

Menorca is the second largest of the Balearic Islands and the most charming and calm. It is the best island to spend some days disconnecting of the every day life and at the same time enjoying the food, the landscapes and the summer festivals of its cities. The capital is located in the eastern part of the island and it is called Maó.

One of the things that makes Menorca one of the most attractive places to visit is its beautiful and deserted beaches. The island has more of them than its sisters, Mallorca and Ibiza, together. The best way to go all over the island and get to every corner in a comfortable way is by car. The only inconvenience is that sometimes you cannot reach the best beaches by car but you may see yourself forced to walk for 30 minutes under the sun of the Mediterranean but, if at the end of your long walk, you find this, all will be forgotten :) Of course, the best would be to rent a boat and discover the small and secret Cales while enjoying the sea breeze.

Cala Macarella

Cala Morell

Between beach and beach a break for eating is more than deserved. Menorca has a wide gastronomic offer. From fish to Maó cheese, you can find a big variety of restaurants, bars and stands all over the island open until late in summer and until 23h in winter. You don't have to miss the ensaimada, typical sweet pastry filled with cabell d'àngel, the sobrassada, a cured sausage made with pork and paprika, the Caldereta de llagosta, a lobster soup and the Xoriger gin the destilery of which can be found in the capital of the island.

Maó cheese

Sobrassada

Xoriger Gin

Menorca is fascinated with horses and has its own race. It even has a path called "Camí de cavalls" that sorrounds the island. If you visit Menorca in summer ask the locals and make yourself sure that you can attend the Festa Major of one of the cities of the island. The most popular is Sant Joan, which takes place every year at the end of June in Ciutadella, the second biggest city of Menorca. The celebration consists of horses and theirs knights "dancing" between the visitors in the main square of the city. What's better than a video to explain that? :)

Festa Major of Ferreries, Menorca

Don't panic if you are in Menorca and see that everybody wears the same shoes! The Avarques are typical balearic sandals made of leather that can be found in nearly every shop.

Avarques

Get yourself some and discover Menorca!!!

Navigating new waters

Even though it feels like only yesterday, it’s been exactly one year since we finished our trip around the World and came back to the old continent. Some blog posts were slow to follow, but finally I think we covered everything we wanted. Still missing some summary, and further tips, they will follow soon. In the meantime we are converting the blog to be an all-round travel blog covering most of our travels even after the big trip. Apart from us, you will also find posts from fellow travellers and interviews with them.

Keep travelling with us!

The Great Wall of China

Once in Beijing, you should not miss the Great Wall. However, finding a decent tour without 2 million tourists can be a real challenge. Nearest and most accessible part of the wall is Badaling. If you absolutely want to go there, do so on the weekdays. Second to Badaling is Mutianyu, which is a bit greener, a bit farther, but still very touristy. These places offer a cable car as an alternative to climbing a significant amount of stairs. Important to note that most hotels and hostels offer daily tours only to these places.

A refreshing exception is Leo hostel. They do a tour called “ancient wall + secret wall”. This one day tour will take you to a part of the wall, which is actually not much reconstructed. (Frankly, if you go to Badaling, the conditions might raise some questions about the real age of the wall.) You don’t have to stay at the hostel to take the tour, just book it at their reception and show up on the day when the tour is scheduled. The tour will take normally around 20 people, and on the way not only you can see documentaries of the wall, but they air a couple of China-related episodes of South Park just to cheer up the folks before the hike. The actual hike is not the easiest one. The complete hike is to climb up to the 6th tower and back. This means around 1.5 hours climbing up, and 1.5 down. Of course you can turn back any time, out of the 20, only 5 of us made it to the 6th tower. Nevertheless the higher you go, the better panorama you will be offered, and you find parts of the wall that are really overgrown by vegetation.

To read more about the tour, visit: http://www.leohostel.com/LEO_HOSTEL_TOURS.html

Tiananmen Square

Tiananmen square is a huge square in the middle of Beijing, just south of the Tiananmen Gate and the Forbidden city. With its 440 000 square meters it is the third largest city square in the world. It is most famous of the protests in 1989 and that it is host to the mausoleum of chairman Mao.

Just to get into the square you will have to pass a security control with x-ray machines. If you want to take a glimpse of the late leader, you will have to undergo further inspections. No cameras, video cameras, bags, backpacks are allowed inside the mausoleum. You will have to leave these in a storage room. Normally you can trust these facilities, but make sure you get a token for your deposit. You have to wear closed shoes, long trousers, and generally respectful clothing. Once you deposited your bag/camera, queue up for the entrance. You will easily find the queue that goes around the building several hundred meters on an average day. Near the entrance there is one more control, smokers usually say good bye to their favorite lighter here. Once inside the building, turn off mobile phones, remove hands from pockets, stay silent, and if you still have a chewing gum in your mouth, freeze your jaws. Proceed in a slow, but steady manner, take a look of the prepared body of the chairman, notice that it is made of wax anyway, and head for the exit. Seriously, any talk, any laughter, any disrespectful move and the guards will speed up your way out. Once outside, smokers can get themselves new lighters, but not the same ones that they left behind. It gets a bit funny here, as people fight for the best lighters and kids tend to take them with two hands for future economic benefits.

If you absolved the 1 hour waiting, 50 second visit, you can recollect your camera and continue to discover the square. The square has around one police officer and 4 security cameras per visitor. The latest police gadgets and vehicles are also on display.

If you are like me, and you do not look Chinese, you will definitely find yourself in the situation I did. Upon entering and walking around the square, a group of 2 men and a woman approached me. They struck up a conversation with surprisingly good English. They told me they were from the countryside and came for the 1st of May celebrations to Beijing. They asked me where I was from, what did I do in the city, how long I stayed, etc. After the small talk they proposed to have a beer in a nearby bar, so we can celebrate our newly born friendship. Well, if you are not straight out of kindergarten, you know that something is fishy here. I politely declined saying that I am Muslim and can not drink beer and moved on two take more photos of the square. Five minutes and 25 photos later another two guys found me with similar good English and similar interest in my visit. At this time I started to bend the truth and started to give shorter answers. To test my new “friends”, I asked them to take a photo with me. One of them flatly refused saying that he was Buddhist (sounds like a BS), but the other one caught the bait.

I am not joking, the same pattern happened at least 8 times while I was on the square. After the second or third I was convinced that they were government agents who were monitoring the intents of tourists. To test my limits, I started to really bend the truth. In one of my stories I was a photo reporter from New York creating a report about the freedom of Tibet. I was counting the seconds how much longer it will take until they arrest me, but nothing happened.

After my escape from the square, I rushed back to my hostel to turn to Lonely Planet that could explain me what the hell was going on. And it did: they were no government agents at all, they were simple scammers who were trying to get people to a “tea ceremony” and then make them pay the hefty bill. Phew. Nevertheless here is a photo of two of the scammers for educational purposes:

Of course, there are also some legitimate visitors, who ask you to take a pic with them, especially if you look like David Beckham …well, in their eyes:)

Beijing: capital of the capitalist communism

Beijing, literally meaning “northern capital” is the capital of China with around 19 million inhabitants. I happened to arrive here by a high speed train from Qingdao, which was an achievement itself regarding the pure Chinese information board hanging at the train station.

Beijing itself is much more modern than a lot of us would imagine. I heard a couple of stories from my father who was there 20 years ago, when cars were scarce and everyone used the bike to get around. Well today, the city has millions of cars, but scooters and bikes and all kind of funky vehicles are still plenty. The public transportation is one of the most modern you can find in Asia.

If food is your main concern, fear not. Many places offer English menu, but even if not, with very little vocabulary you can manage quite well. I managed to get along with only one word/symbol I learned (and the translation is not accurate):

beef – 牛

If you are veggie, you must do your own homework:)
Nevertheless a couple of times I had no idea what I was eating, but simply by avoiding food sold on the street and greasier pork dishes, I had decent meals every day.

The two most important sights to see in Beijing are the Tiananmen square and the Forbidden CIty. Tiananmen is worth a separate blog entry so I will discuss it later.
The Forbidden City is basically the palace of former Chinese emperors. As in Beijing generally, do not believe the small scale of the maps. The place is huge! You can easily spend a whole day here without seeing it in total. Apart from the vast amount of domestic “let’s photograph everything” tourists, the funniest thing in the place is the name of the palaces and sites. Just to name a few: Hall of Military Eminence, Hall of Literary Glory, Palace of Heavenly Purity, Hall of Mental Cultivation, Palace of Tranquil Longevity, Hill of Accumulated Elegance, etc.

As I mentioned in my earlier article about Qingdao, when visiting less frequented sites, make sure you get enough information before. Guidebooks, even Lonely Planet can be painfully outdated in just a few years. That’s how we found out the underground city has been closed…after having a hard time finding it at all:)

Beijing is also the capital of counterfeit goods. There are huge malls selling only fake stuff: first floor for Luis Vuitton bags, second floor for Rolex watches, third floor for pearls, etc. The demand is so high that there are organized buses bringing and taking groups of tourists and hotels are built up next to the malls. Remember: the quality of the counterfeit items also varies a lot. The cheaper the crappier, Fake or not, make sure you bargain a lot, even if you feel you are way undershooting the real price. My personal experience is that nothing costs more than 10 yuan (around 1.5 USD) in China!

Another word you might want to learn in China is for internet cafes: 网吧

Internet cafes are not difficult to find. The audience mostly consists of local kids playing some online games. Do not expect to see a lot of foreigners, and at check-in you have to leave your passport at the operator’s desk. Some places might even refuse to provide the service to foreigners. Internet explorer 6 browsers are considered extinct everywhere else in the world, but here they are the favorites, thus in order to actually use any websites, your first thing will be to download a normal browser. Lots of services, like facebook are blocked, nevertheless everyone knows what to download to bypass the block. Other services, like twitter, have Chinese copy-cats that are not blocked, thus more widely used. Weibo, the twitter clone is the same as twitter, but can actually be censored by the state.

And to close this post, let’s talk about the naked baby bums you can see quite a lot in Beijing:)
In order to save on diapers, thus directly contributing to preserve our fragile environment, a lot of parents opt for baby panties that are split in the middle. When nature calls, they simply hold the baby above a trash bin, or grassy area, and the job is done. And in winter? Babies have cold bottoms.

^{(photo by Kendra Ferrell)}